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Asian Culture

How to Make Friends and Find Love With Board Games (4-Minute Read)

An interview with Asian American, Board Game Designer, Ben Moy (Your Friend Ben Moy Designs Board Games). My husband, Brian and I enjoy playing board games (FYI: He loves them a little more than I do) In 2013, when Brian and I were dating, we started going on double dates Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMay 27, 2019 ago
25 brutally honest dating tips that will make you go damn you're right
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25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.”

Let’s not sugarcoat it…dating sucks. To help you change your mindset, here are 25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.” Dating is like the epitome of your ego going into a Gladiator ring, with no armour, just your naked ass, putting yourself out there Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMay 8, 2019 ago
Michael Gamboa
Asian Culture

Going Beyond The Rave To Make Human Connections (3-Minute Read)

An interview with Asian American, Michael Gamboa (AKA DJ Feels Goodman). Happy Hardcore and Vocal Trance. House DJ from Southern California. When picturing a rave, what do I think of? I picture a bunch of young Asian kids dancing around like no one is watching, hypnotized by the beats and Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsApril 25, 2019 ago
HOW TO GET YOUR BOYFRIEND TO PROPOSE
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HOW TO GET YOUR BOYFRIEND TO PROPOSE TO YOU

EPISODE 20: HOW TO GET YOUR BOYFRIEND TO PROPOSE TO YOU https://youtu.be/vIqg-LavNRg First of all, I have to confess but this title is misleading because this is the harsh truth… YOU CAN’T! Let me break it down. You’re in a long-term relationship. Depending on how old you are, this can Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsApril 15, 2019 ago
how to get over any relationship and have the courage to end one
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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO GETTING OVER ANY RELATIONSHIP

EPISODE 19: THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO GETTING OVER ANY RELATIONSHIP https://youtu.be/5OxjjSoOFt0 Did you fired or did you quit? Did he break with you? Or did you break up with him? Did she unfriend/unfollow you first? Or did you? How much you care about the answers to these questions depends on Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsApril 1, 2019 ago
how to think straight when you're dating and not go crazy
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HOW TO THINK STRAIGHT WHEN YOU’RE DATING AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE GOING CRAZY

EPISODE 13: HOW TO THINK STRAIGHT WHEN YOU’RE DATING AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE GOING CRAZY Life isn’t complicated. Humans and their human stuff make it complicated. And that’s what we do with everything. Like dating. We get all messed up and can’t think straight. I’m here to simplify it Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 22, 2019 ago
WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU
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WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU

EPISODE 9: WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU What are the excuses that you give yourself when you think no one likes you? Do you want to give up on finding someone to share your life with? Do you think you Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 18, 2019 ago
why online dating doesn't suck
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WHY ONLINE DATING DOESN’T HAVE TO SUCK

EPISODE 7: WHY ONLINE DATING DOESN’T HAVE TO SUCK I met my husband online back in 2013 and lately, I’ve noticed a lot of people complaining about the online dating scene. WHAT’S GOING ON? What has this technology done to our generation?  HAS IT ABUSED US? SHOULD WE BLAME IT?  Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 5, 2019 ago
Let's get real and raw about dating
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LET’S GET REAL AND RAW ABOUT DATING

EPISODE 5: LET’S GET REAL AND RAW ABOUT DATING “How did an INTROVERTED, ASIAN CANADIAN MILLENNIAL who grew up with traditional, immigrant parents find her husband online with ZERO dating experience?” In 2013, I ended an 8-year long relationship and entered the ‘scary’ online dating world for the first time. Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 5, 2019 ago
Asian Culture

The Top 10 Posts of The Sum On Sleeve Blog

Remember those shows where they would show clips from old episodes? I loved them because it was like reliving the best parts of the season. With over 60 posts, it’s been an incredible journey and I’m so grateful to all my readers. Every story told, every word read, every sentence digested Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsDecember 28, 2018 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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