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Why Competitive Moms Trigger Me (3-minute read)

I just want genuine conversations while we watch our kids play The other day, I took my kids to the playground. I was watching them laugh, climb, fall, and get back up again — doing what kids do. Another mom came by with her son, who looked about the same age as mine. Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 monthsOctober 27, 2025 ago
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Asian Culture

Why “I Turned Out Fine” Isn’t the Flex We Think It Is (3-minute read)

Survival doesn’t equal thriving, and our kids deserve more than that. Not long ago, another mom asked if I was planning to enroll my kid in math tutoring, French classes, music lessons, martial arts, soccer…you know — the full litany of extracurriculars. I smiled politely and said, “Actually, I was that kid.” The Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 monthsSeptember 22, 2025 ago
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I Yelled at My Kindergartener… and I Wish I Hadn’t (3-minute read)

His little face crumpled. I knew I had to do something differently next time. The other day at camp pick-up, my kindergartener didn’t want to leave. He had swim lessons, but all he wanted was to stay and play. So he threw a tantrum — big feelings, big stomps, and yelling that he Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 7 monthsAugust 11, 2025 ago
I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents' Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom
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I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents’ Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom (4-minute read)

I have 3 sisters. For most of my life, my parents put a lot of attention on my eldest sister. Then I became a mom and it changed everything. Anything I accomplished, my sister had already done it… There are three of us: my eldest sister, my middle sister and Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsSeptember 22, 2021 ago
For years, I wore my engagement and wedding rings. Then the pandemic hit and I started thinking about what those rings actually mean to me.
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How The Pandemic Made Me Stop Wearing My Wedding Ring (3-minute read)

For years, I wore my engagement and wedding rings. Then the pandemic hit and I started thinking about what those rings actually mean to me. I got engaged in a botanical garden in Egypt. I was waiting in a gazebo while he used the bathroom. When he came back, he Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsSeptember 21, 2021 ago
How the Death of My Sex Ideals Led to the Birth of My Child
Asian Culture

How I Stopped Using Sex as a Weapon When We Started Trying For A Baby (5-minute read)

When we started trying to conceive, I stopped using sex as a weapon. The journey helped me create a family and more intimacy in my marriage. My parents never talked about sex They barely showed physical affection towards each other; and when they did, my dad was always the one who Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsAugust 19, 2021 ago
How I Made $3525.71 In My First Two Months As A Freelance Writer
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How I Made $3525.71 In My First Two Months As A Freelance Writer (5-minute read)

I haven’t left my 9–5…yet but here’s exactly what I did to make $3525.71 in my first two months as a freelance writer. Two months have flown by After debunking some serious misconceptions about freelance writing, I started my journey with zero expectations. I don’t regret it for a second as the Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsJune 16, 2021 ago
My Daughter Called Me Out for Fighting With My Husband
Asian Culture

My Daughter Called Me Out for Fighting With My Husband (4-minute read)

After having a fight with my husband in front of our kids, I wasn’t able to do what my daughter wanted me to. I felt like I was repeating my parents’ behaviour but this incident inspires me to keep trying to be a better person. Fighting at a crosswalk It’s Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsJune 10, 2021 ago
Why I Wouldn't Want To Live The Digital Nomad Lifestyle (5-minute read)
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Why I Wouldn’t Want To Live The Digital Nomad Lifestyle (5-minute read)

With the ability to work remotely, the digital nomad lifestyle is growing. It sounds like a dream but personally, I wouldn’t want to be one. First of all, I enjoy travelling From Japan, Egypt, Mexico to Italy, I’ve stepped foot in more countries than I can count on my fingers. Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsJune 8, 2021 ago
Why I Started Using Screens At Mealtime
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Why I Started Using Screens At Mealtime (6-minute read)

Mealtime with my firstborn was easy and stress-free. I would judge other parents for using a screen at mealtime. Then I had my second. When it was just the 3 of us… When I first became a mom, I wanted to do everything by the book. But of course, like a naive Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsMarch 23, 2021 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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