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I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents' Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom
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I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents’ Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom (4-minute read)

I have 3 sisters. For most of my life, my parents put a lot of attention on my eldest sister. Then I became a mom and it changed everything. Anything I accomplished, my sister had already done it… There are three of us: my eldest sister, my middle sister and Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsSeptember 22, 2021 ago
For years, I wore my engagement and wedding rings. Then the pandemic hit and I started thinking about what those rings actually mean to me.
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How The Pandemic Made Me Stop Wearing My Wedding Ring (3-minute read)

For years, I wore my engagement and wedding rings. Then the pandemic hit and I started thinking about what those rings actually mean to me. I got engaged in a botanical garden in Egypt. I was waiting in a gazebo while he used the bathroom. When he came back, he Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsSeptember 21, 2021 ago
How the Death of My Sex Ideals Led to the Birth of My Child
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How I Stopped Using Sex as a Weapon When We Started Trying For A Baby (5-minute read)

When we started trying to conceive, I stopped using sex as a weapon. The journey helped me create a family and more intimacy in my marriage. My parents never talked about sex They barely showed physical affection towards each other; and when they did, my dad was always the one who Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsAugust 19, 2021 ago
As an Asian Woman, Self-Work Means Creating Balance Between Collectivistic Instincts and Individualistic Urges
Asian Culture

As an Asian Woman, Self-Work Means Creating Balance Between Collectivistic Instincts and Individualistic Urges (7-minute read)

How to balance the collectivist instincts instilled through my upbringing and the individualistic urges influenced by my environment. Recently, I saw a TikTok video of an Asian woman getting her 23andMe results. In a mere 15 seconds, she opens the envelope, looks at it and shows the audience what it Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsAugust 11, 2021 ago
My Daughter Called Me Out for Fighting With My Husband
Asian Culture

My Daughter Called Me Out for Fighting With My Husband (4-minute read)

After having a fight with my husband in front of our kids, I wasn’t able to do what my daughter wanted me to. I felt like I was repeating my parents’ behaviour but this incident inspires me to keep trying to be a better person. Fighting at a crosswalk It’s Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsJune 10, 2021 ago
Why I Wouldn't Want To Live The Digital Nomad Lifestyle (5-minute read)
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Why I Wouldn’t Want To Live The Digital Nomad Lifestyle (5-minute read)

With the ability to work remotely, the digital nomad lifestyle is growing. It sounds like a dream but personally, I wouldn’t want to be one. First of all, I enjoy travelling From Japan, Egypt, Mexico to Italy, I’ve stepped foot in more countries than I can count on my fingers. Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsJune 8, 2021 ago
Why I Started Using Screens At Mealtime
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Why I Started Using Screens At Mealtime (6-minute read)

Mealtime with my firstborn was easy and stress-free. I would judge other parents for using a screen at mealtime. Then I had my second. When it was just the 3 of us… When I first became a mom, I wanted to do everything by the book. But of course, like a naive Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 23, 2021 ago
5 Stereotypes About Being The Youngest That Aren't True
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5 Stereotypes About The Youngest Child That Aren’t True (5-minute read)

Does birth order really matter? Or are they just stereotypes? Here are 5 stereotypes that aren’t true for the youngest in the family, Youngest Child Syndrome Back in the 1920s, psychologist Alfred Adler coined the term, “Youngest Child Syndrome”, detailing the negative and positive effects of birth order on a person’s Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 18, 2021 ago
24 Reasons A Mom Is On Her Phone When She's Watching Her Kids
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24 Reasons A Mom Is On Her Phone When She’s Watching Her Kids (4-minute read)

The phone has replaced dozens of devices. What is a mom doing on her phone when she’s watching her kids? She’s doing a million things even though it doesn’t look like it. “She was on her phone the whole time…” Recently, I picked my daughter up from my parents’. They watch Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 17, 2021 ago
The Time I Listened To My Child Instead of Jumping To Conclusions
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The Time I Listened To My Child Instead Of Jumping To Conclusions (5-minute read)

When your child misbehaves, it’s easiest to lecture and discipline. However, sometimes it takes a bit of listening to truly understand what’s going on. Parenting is hard Motherhood has its ups and downs, fun moments and painful moments, times when we want to call it quits and times when can’t get Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 11, 2021 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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