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5 Valuable Life Lessons I Learned From My Exes
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5 Valuable Life Lessons I Learned From My Exes (6-minute read)

I used to believe I needed to forget my exes; however, that experience taught me so much about myself. 5 valuable life lessons learned from my past relationships. I used to believe I needed to forget my exes When I was younger, I would cringe with regret whenever a random thought popped Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 31, 2021 ago
it's been 7 years since I met my husband through online dating
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It’s been 7 years since I met my husband through online dating

Does online dating actually work? I met my husband over years ago and here’s our love story. When did you meet online? Brian: We had met towards the end of the summer in 2013. Katharine: Summer of 2013. I remember Drake’s “Hold On, We’re Going Home” was playing nonstop on Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsMay 14, 2020 ago
4 options to manage conflict with someone
Asian Culture

The 4 Options You Have For Managing Conflict With Someone (5-minute read)

What do you do when you have an issue with someone?⁣ Conflict is inevitable because people exist Spouses fight. Families bicker. Co-workers disagree. Friends argue. Hell, even strangers on a bus have hissy fits with one another. Have you ever met someone who was always in agreement with you? His Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsFebruary 19, 2020 ago
why people are overly critical and how to deal with them
Asian Culture

Why People Are Overly Critical and How To Deal With Them (3-minute read)

Ever met someone who is never impressed, constantly disappointed in others and sets unattainable expectations?⁣ Nothing is good enough I am guilty of being overly critical. It’s an unfortunate behaviour for recovering perfectionists. I’ve been that toxic asshole who was constantly ragging on others, pointing out their weaknesses and offering Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsFebruary 17, 2020 ago
how to be authentic without oversharing
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How to be Authentic Without Oversharing (3-minute read)

How can you be vulnerable so you deepen relationships without divulging too much? Ever watch a couple get divorced on Facebook? Have you ever seen someone on Facebook or Twitter or whatever social media channel detail their entire life for the world to see? From that nasty hemorrhoid that they Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsFebruary 12, 2020 ago
4 things couples should absolutely talk about before getting married
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4 Things Couples Should Absolutely Talk About Before Getting Married (7-minute read)

Think you’ve found the one? Make sure you’re on the same page with these 4 things. Only 4 things? Seriously? While getting ideas from friends, family and other blogs for this post, I heard tons of things that felt important to talk about. This could blog post could have easily Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsNovember 22, 2019 ago
watch for these signs when in a long distance relationship
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3 SIGNS TO WATCH FOR WHEN IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP

EPISODE 27: 3 SIGNS TO WATCH FOR WHEN IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP Many people question how long-distance relationships work and whether they’re worth it. If you are dealing with a long-distance relationship and curious if it’s working, watch this video to learn about 3 signs of a healthy long-distance Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJuly 22, 2019 ago
25 brutally honest dating tips that will make you go damn you're right
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25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.”

Let’s not sugarcoat it…dating sucks. To help you change your mindset, here are 25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.” Dating is like the epitome of your ego going into a Gladiator ring, with no armour, just your naked ass, putting yourself out there Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMay 8, 2019 ago
how to think straight when you're dating and not go crazy
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HOW TO THINK STRAIGHT WHEN YOU’RE DATING AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE GOING CRAZY

EPISODE 13: HOW TO THINK STRAIGHT WHEN YOU’RE DATING AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’RE GOING CRAZY Life isn’t complicated. Humans and their human stuff make it complicated. And that’s what we do with everything. Like dating. We get all messed up and can’t think straight. I’m here to simplify it Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 22, 2019 ago
WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU
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WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU

EPISODE 9: WHEN YOU WANT TO GIVE UP ON DATING BECAUSE YOU THINK NO ONE LIKES YOU What are the excuses that you give yourself when you think no one likes you? Do you want to give up on finding someone to share your life with? Do you think you Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMarch 18, 2019 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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