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when you say you are entitled to your opinion
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What It Means When People Say They’re “Entitled To Their Opinion” (8-minute read)

“It’s called freedom of speech and I’m entitled to my opinion.” “I say what I want when I want.” “It’s called free speech and I’m entitled to my opinion.” “I don’t care what you think. That’s just how I feel.” “Whatever, I do what I want!” Like many other bloggers, Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJuly 19, 2019 ago
When my child says thank you, it's for them, not you. how to teach your child to practice gratitude
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WHEN MY CHILD SAYS THANK YOU, IT’S FOR THEM, NOT YOU

EPISODE 26: WHEN MY CHILD SAYS THANK YOU, IT’S FOR THEM, NOT YOU How can make sure our children understand and practice gratitude? It’s about going beyond getting them to recite the words, ‘Thank you.’  A stranger holds the door for you… Your mom babysits so you have can have Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 27, 2019 ago
3 signs to look for when making new friends to avoid making toxic ones
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3 SIGNS TO LOOK FOR WHEN MAKING NEW FRIENDS TO AVOID MAKING TOXIC ONES

EPISODE 25: 3 SIGNS TO LOOK FOR WHEN MAKING NEW FRIENDS (TO AVOID MAKING TOXIC ONES) https://youtu.be/vzMbVN5mNmE How do you make sure you make great friends instead of toxic ones? Here are 3 signs to look for when making new friends.  1. Look For Drama-Free Friends When I make friends, Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 21, 2019 ago
How to avoid becoming a toxic friend. 3 strategies to manage your behaviour so you don't lose all your friends
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HOW TO AVOID BECOMING A TOXIC FRIEND SO YOU DON’T LOSE THEM

EPISODE 24: HOW TO AVOID BECOMING A TOXIC FRIEND (3 STRATEGIES TO MANAGE YOUR BEHAVIOUR SO YOU DON’T LOSE FRIENDS) https://youtu.be/LpbVL5Vdtkw So in part 1, I shared the 3 signs that I watch for in myself when I think I’m becoming a toxic friend. In part 2 of my toxic Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 21, 2019 ago
how to recognize a toxic friend. the first thing you need to know
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HOW TO RECOGNIZE A TOXIC FRIEND: THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO

EPISODE 23: HOW TO RECOGNIZE A TOXIC FRIEND (THE FIRST THING YOU NEED TO DO) https://youtu.be/MhEzfr6V5nU Here is part 1 of my 3 part series on Toxic Friendships: Ah, toxic friends. From Clueless to Mean Girls to Gossip Girl (is it Pretty Little Liars now?)… Do they only appear in Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 21, 2019 ago
Jane Fang Authentic Energy
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How This Asian Woman Entrepreneur is Transforming Lives and Staying True to Her Culture (4-Minute Read)

From Healthy Jane To Authentic Energy: An interview with Jane Fang, Wellness Coach, Authentic Energy Those stubborn 5-10 pounds, that unsightly muffin top, non-existent thigh gap, saggy butt or flabby arms… When we step out of the shower, catch ourselves in the mirror, and see our bodies in raw form, Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 21, 2019 ago
How I learned to embrace my Chinese Canadian Culture
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HOW I LEARNED TO EMBRACE MY CHINESE CANADIAN CULTURE

EPISODE 22: HOW I LEARNED TO EMBRACE MY CHINESE CANADIAN CULTURE https://youtu.be/sjSsXmQlzAI “In my life, I’ve been called many things.” Growing up in the 90s in a predominantly Caucasian community, I got the usual questions and comments. Here’s a sample with answers I should have given back instead of silently Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 18, 2019 ago
how to manage your anger when fighting with your partner
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How To Manage Your Anger When You’re Fighting With Your Partner – (9-minute read)

Oh, God, I hate fighting with my husband. Not the bickering (although sometimes it starts off like that) but the real, hard, painful, values pinching type of fights. The thought of fighting makes me want to crawl into a cave and wait for everything to settle down. I don’t want Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 5, 2019 ago
tiger parent mom
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How To Teach Your Kid Grit Without Becoming A Tiger Parent – (7-minute read)

When you want your kid to grow up tough enough to face the world but you don’t want to become your parents…What do you do? “Suck it up.” “Stop crying.” “Toughen up.” “What doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger.” Asian Values Around Hard Work and Perseverance Growing up with Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMay 30, 2019 ago
Asian Culture

How to Make Friends and Find Love With Board Games (4-Minute Read)

An interview with Asian American, Board Game Designer, Ben Moy (Your Friend Ben Moy Designs Board Games). My husband, Brian and I enjoy playing board games (FYI: He loves them a little more than I do) In 2013, when Brian and I were dating, we started going on double dates Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsMay 27, 2019 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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