Some decisions are hard to make and some are easy. Making a decision like, “Where do you want to go for dinner?” may be easy for someone and hard for someone else. When I was in my early 20’s, some of the simplest decisions would stress me out. There were Read more…
So how does a woman’s life change when she goes from single and dating to married with kids? This is the next part of my dating chronicles where I share what I actually wrote online dating profile and make comments on how my life has changed. It’s the ultimate self-reflection Read more…
It’s my time to reflect on those sometimes annoying, mandatory Chinese family dinners growing up and how they’ve changed as I got older. **Click Below To Listen** So I’ve known how to make food for myself since I was very little, like elementary school times. I remember when I was 8, Read more…
How to find your one, true love in this online dating world. Dating advice summarized into three easy to follow principles. Let’s be brutally honest about dating because that’s the secret to it. Dating is hard. There’s no way to put it but sometimes you get treated like shit. How Read more…
After she was born, I started hating my husband like he was this evil asshole who only cared about himself and his needs. **Click Below To Listen** Our bundle of joy was more like a bundle of tangled Christmas lights. I was trying to figure out which end was which Read more…
This is the second part of my recovering perfectionism journey. Please check out my first part to get a better sense of my story Hitting my first rock bottom at the age of 16 made me grow up pretty quickly. How does a self-destructive teenager with a distorted view of Read more…
Ladies, have you ever been in a public location (like waiting for the bus, buying groceries or getting your fix at Starbucks) and a man comes up to you and tells you to smile? **Click Below To Listen Now** Like he says, “Turn that frown upside down!” “You’d be prettier Read more…
Here are 13 Reasons Why I watched 13 Reasons Why **Click Below To Listen Now** This blog is dedicated to my high school self. You were a really important part of my life. I’m so glad you saw the light at the end of the tunnel before your self-harming ways got Read more…
I’m not super fluent in Chinese but I want to preserve the language for my daughter. Here are my top 4 tips for doing this I’m a Chinese-Canadian mom (you can read more about my journey of accepting my culture here). As much as I’ve been open to learning and Read more…
I’m going to preface this by saying this list is based on the assumptions that my daughter decides to have a kid and that I will be alive when this happens. **Click Below To Listen Now** I know this may not happen but I like to put these thoughts into Read more…