In this video, Angie Wong and I sat down and had a real and raw conversation about relationships.
This was previously recorded live on July 10th, 2020 at 8 pm PST.
What does it mean to go live?
Putting the camera on and letting everyone see what’s going on at the moment. No filter. No editing. No going back.
We hear it sometimes when we watch TV. “We’re on live.”
But most of the time, we don’t appreciate what it means to the person on screen. It’s not until you’re in the hot seat when you realize that there really isn’t a way to go back.
But I did it and it wasn’t as scary as I thought it was going to be (like in most scary things in life…the monsters under the bed aren’t actually there.)
Angie Wong, L.M.T. & ICF Certified Life Coach is the creator of the Facebook Group Show Face to Face. “This group was created to support individuals of Asian descent to address, share, better understand, cope and heal their cultural beliefs that have left deep wounds, shame, guilt and confusion in our upbringing.”
So it happened and we went live on July 10th, 2020 at 8 pm PST.
During the talk, Angie and I sat down and had a real and raw conversation about relationships.
We chatted about relationships of all sorts, romantic, non-romantic, family, strangers, diving into the nitty-gritty of human connection and energy.
I spoke about the past lessons from a previous relationship that revealed toxic behaviours such as over-functioning and poor anger management which led to deep-rooted resentment. I go into detail about how I am in relationships is influenced by my childhood growing up with Asian immigrant parents.
We hit some major truths about dating and what happens when we treat ourselves poorly and how that attracts those who will treat us poorly. We get honest about our egos and what happens when we get hurt.
As Angie puts it,
“It’s not reJECTion. It’s reDIRECTion.”
Stick around! It’s about to get vulnerable. Let the learning and healing begin.
For more information about Show Face to Face, check out the group:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/showfacetoface/
