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5 signs you're functioning more like your husband's mother than his wife
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6 Signs You’re Functioning More Like Your Husband’s Mother Than His Wife (7-minute read)

We all want what’s best for our husbands. But when do we become over-responsible for their well-being? What is ‘Over-functioning’? The other day, I came across the term ‘over-functioning’ while browsing through some self-help articles. It’s a type of behaviour where someone manages their anxiety by functioning for others who Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsNovember 18, 2019 ago
how to manage your anger when fighting with your partner
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How To Manage Your Anger When You’re Fighting With Your Partner – (9-minute read)

Oh, God, I hate fighting with my husband. Not the bickering (although sometimes it starts off like that) but the real, hard, painful, values pinching type of fights. The thought of fighting makes me want to crawl into a cave and wait for everything to settle down. I don’t want Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJune 5, 2019 ago
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How I Stopped Resenting My Husband After Having Our Daughter (6 minute read)

After she was born, I started hating my husband like he was this evil asshole who only cared about himself and his needs. **Click Below To Listen** Our bundle of joy was more like a bundle of tangled Christmas lights. I was trying to figure out which end was which Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 8 yearsNovember 9, 2017 ago
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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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