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13 Beliefs I Stopped Holding. But They Still Haunt Me (5-minute read)

“My value is not determined by how I compare to others.”…on repeat in my head. All of us know at least a dozen people who do not share all of our beliefs. With over 7 billion of us, there is bound to be conflict. I can agree to disagree on topics Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 10 hoursMay 9, 2025 ago
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Sometimes I Wish I Sucked at Listening (5-minute read)

There are 3 types of bad listeners. Listening is a life skill. Everyone knows that. We’ve all seen self-help gurus, thought leaders, TED talks, psychologists, and the latest news and research share how we should all be listening more than we speak…especially in a society where attention is scarce and distractions Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 10 hoursMay 9, 2025 ago
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5 Things I Did When My Clients Suddenly Reduced Their Work For Me (4-minute read)

This month has been a kick to the butt. Do you know how, when you get some bad news, you kinda want to deny it and move on? One of my biggest clients cut back on their work for me. Then, shortly after, another client had budget cuts and told me Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 10 hoursMay 9, 2025 ago
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Why It’s Difficult for Me to Share Good News (3-minute read)

When we accomplish a goal, reach a dream, or win a fortune…how do our past and conditions affect the way we share that type of information? When we accomplish a goal, reach a dream, or win a fortune…how do our past and conditions affect the way we share that type Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 10 hoursMay 9, 2025 ago
It's been almost six months since I left my 9–5 job to become a freelance writer. Here are a few things I've experienced so far
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I Quit My 9–5 Job To Pursue My Side Hustle 6 Months Ago (3-minute read)

It’s been almost six months since I left my 9–5 job to become a freelance writer. Here are a few things I’ve experienced so far: It is not a lifestyle that I recommend to just anyone. Leaving your 9–5 for your side hustle sounds like you’re pursuing your passion and living Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 3 yearsOctober 26, 2022 ago
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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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