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why the term maternal instinct hurts men and women
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Why the term ‘Maternal Instinct’ hurts men and women (7-minute read)

Because women aren’t the only ones who can be nurturing human beings. Duh! Let’s time travel back to about 3 years ago. It’s 3:00 am. My daughter’s hunger cries wake me up. I get up, trudge over to her crib, pick her up and yawn. It’s 3:05 am. I’m sitting Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsMarch 18, 2020 ago
7 empowering tips ever new mom needs to hear
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7 Empowering Tips Every New Mom Needs To Hear (8-minute read)

What do new moms really need to hear during those first months with their newborns? When a baby is born, a mother is also born. Some people may not realize this because all they focus on is the baby. We can’t blame them since babies are the epitome of joy. Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsFebruary 4, 2020 ago
6 Things You Should Not Say To A Pregnant Woman
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6 Things You Should Not Say To A Pregnant Woman (4-minute read)

Pregnant women get attention. They’re signs of hope and the future, restoring faith in humanity. With that attention comes people who say the darndest things. You see her burgeoning belly, her waddle, her loose, comfortable clothing. She’s carrying a miracle inside her! She’s growing a human. She’s a glowing figure Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsNovember 29, 2019 ago
The Ultimate Guide To Deciding Whether You Should Have Kids
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The Ultimate Guide To Deciding Whether You Should Have Kids (12-minute read)

“Should I have kids? Maybe if I meet a guy who wants them but for now, nope.” “I don’t want my life to change right now but that stupid biological clock is ticking.” “Parenting seems so hard and tiring but then why do all these people do it?” “I’m on Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsAugust 29, 2019 ago
achieve your goals by facing your fears
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How To Achieve Your Goals By Facing Your Fears (5-minute read)

“I’m not scared; I’m just not motivated to start my goals right now.” “I’ll start my diet on Monday.” “Watching Netflix on a Friday night is way more fun than going out and meeting someone.” “I don’t have time to workout.” “Paying off that student loan can wait; these shoes Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsAugust 16, 2019 ago
when you say you are entitled to your opinion
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What It Means When People Say They’re “Entitled To Their Opinion” (8-minute read)

“It’s called freedom of speech and I’m entitled to my opinion.” “I say what I want when I want.” “It’s called free speech and I’m entitled to my opinion.” “I don’t care what you think. That’s just how I feel.” “Whatever, I do what I want!” Like many other bloggers, Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 6 yearsJuly 19, 2019 ago
unsolicited parenting advice
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6 Types Of People Who Give Unsolicited Parenting Advice (Ranked In Order of Annoyance) – (4 minute read)

Unsolicited advice is one of my biggest pet peeves. Oh great, you have the number of a good housecleaner and you’re texting that to me as you stand in my “filthy” living room. Did I ask? No! I enjoy basking in my family’s dead skin cells. So mind your own damn Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 7 yearsSeptember 25, 2018 ago
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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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