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5 Stereotypes About Being The Youngest That Aren't True
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5 Stereotypes About The Youngest Child That Aren’t True (5-minute read)

Does birth order really matter? Or are they just stereotypes? Here are 5 stereotypes that aren’t true for the youngest in the family, Youngest Child Syndrome Back in the 1920s, psychologist Alfred Adler coined the term, “Youngest Child Syndrome”, detailing the negative and positive effects of birth order on a person’s Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 18, 2021 ago
How I Use My Fears To Stop Procrastinating On My Goals
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How I Use My Fears To Stop Procrastinating On My Goals (8-minute read)

When you procrastinate, you’re putting your goals on hold. How I use my fears to stop procrastinating and start doing. When you procrastinate by reading how to stop procrastination I am the queen of procrastination. As a recovering perfectionist, I am notorious for coming up with the most creative reasons Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 10, 2021 ago
Why I Changed My Mind About Taking My Husband's Last Name
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Why I Changed My Mind About Taking My Husband’s Name (5-minute read)

When I got married, I was planning to take my husband’s name. It’s a tradition I thought I valued. But then as time went by, I changed my mind. To take or not to take… “Do or do not. There is no try.” -Yoda Actually, nowadays, a couple has options Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 3, 2021 ago
Should You Focus On Writing Quality Or Quantity
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Should You Focus On Writing Quality Or Quantity? (4-minute read)

Should a writer focus on writing high-quality articles or writing a ton? Does quality or quantity matter more? The question is fundamentally flawed. A writer’s dilemma The quality versus quantity debate is what tears a writer apart. You want to write a ton but you’re afraid the more you write and Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsMarch 2, 2021 ago
What I Learned When I Self-Published 3 Books
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4 Lessons Learned When I Self-Published 3 Books (8-minute read)

Can you make money with self-published books? I have 3 and here are my lessons learned. I started blogging in 2017. At the time, I had no idea what I was doing. I signed up for a Blogger account and basically dumped my thoughts onto digital paper each week, hit Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 23, 2021 ago
What No One Tells You About Being Married To A Realtor
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What No One Tells You About Being Married To A Realtor (6-minute read)

My husband became a realtor 3 years ago and it’s affected our marriage. I knew things would change but I didn’t expect these things to happen. My husband made a career change about 3 years ago. He’s a Chartered Accountant by trade but real estate has been his passion for Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 18, 2021 ago
I've had my fair share of people-pleasing, trying to get people to like me. How I stopped doing this and started living life for myself.
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How I Stopped People-Pleasing And Started Living Life On My Own Terms (8-minute read)

I’ve had my fair share of people-pleasing, trying to get people to like me. How I stopped doing this and started living life for myself. People-pleasing = low self-esteem From always saying yes, breaking promises with ourselves, sacrificing our values to help someone out, enabling toxic behaviours, keeping silent to Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 16, 2021 ago
I've written on Medium for years and I never thought my partner earnings would increase to the 3 digits. 3 things I did to reach this.
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3 Things I Did To Increase My Medium Partner Earnings From $17.08 to $354.79 Per Month (6-minute read)

I’ve written on Medium for years and I never thought my partner earnings would increase to the 3 digits. Here are the 3 things I did to reach this. Humble beginnings with zero expectations I’ve been writing on Medium for over 3 years. At first, it started as just another Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 10, 2021 ago
Why I Was Furious When My Husband Surprised Me With A Break From The Kids
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Why I Was Furious When My Husband Surprised Me With A Break From The Kids (6-minute read)

I’ve heard the stories of wives praising their husbands for surprising them with a break from their kids. However, a break wasn’t what I wanted. I thought I wanted the surprise I’ve heard the stories of women praising their husbands for surprising them with a day off, taking the kids out Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 9, 2021 ago
What I Do When My Article Is Rejected So I Can Quickly Move On
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How To Move On After Your Story Has Been Rejected (5-minute read)

As a writer, it sucks when you get that email saying your article, proposal, or idea wasn’t accepted. How do I deal with the rejection so that I can quickly move on and keep writing? You’ve probably heard the wise saying,  “It’s not a rejection; it’s a redirection.” Okay, sure Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsFebruary 3, 2021 ago

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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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