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I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents' Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom
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I Was Jealous of the Attention My Parents’ Gave My Eldest Sister Until I Became Mom (4-minute read)

I have 3 sisters. For most of my life, my parents put a lot of attention on my eldest sister. Then I became a mom and it changed everything. Anything I accomplished, my sister had already done it… There are three of us: my eldest sister, my middle sister and Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsSeptember 22, 2021 ago
What To Do When You Feel Like An Inadequate Mother
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What To Do When You Feel Like An Inadequate Mother (7-minute read)

Mothers are often hard on themselves and feel like they’re not good enough. Here’s what to do when you feel like an inadequate parent. Dropping the ball and picking it back up. Obviously, I know there’s no such thing as a perfect mom In my home, socks are unmatched. The laundry Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsDecember 24, 2020 ago
Why We Need To Stop Viewing Our Parents As Either Good Or Evil. They're merely human
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Why We Need To Stop Viewing Our Parents As Either Good Or Evil (7-minute read)

Parents are not good or evil, heroes or villains. Seeing them as humans let us practice empathy and compassion for others and ourselves. “Respect your parents! They did so much for you.” As the author of the book “How To Deal With Asian Parents”, it’s obvious I’ve struggled with the relationship Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 4 yearsDecember 17, 2020 ago
Getting pregnant wasn't easy for me the second time. But that experience made me more compassionate for those who struggle with infertility.
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Getting pregnant wasn’t easy but it taught me compassion for those who are still trying (12-minute read)

Getting pregnant wasn’t easy for me the second time. But that experience made me more compassionate for those who struggle with infertility. Apparently, having unprotected sex does not guarantee a baby My fears about unplanned pregnancies Highschool sex education instilled a fear in me about doing the deed. Having sex Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsOctober 28, 2020 ago
Working moms have it tough. Our social life is often at the bottom of our priorities. How can one minimize the loneliness of motherhood?
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Why motherhood can be lonely and how I’m coping (12-minute read)

Working moms have it tough. Our social life is often at the bottom of our priorities. How can one minimize the loneliness of motherhood? https://youtu.be/4JD9yu1T4Xkhttps://youtu.be/7ddg21efJ9whttps://youtu.be/MK0xFzuyj8A Responding late to texts is merely the tip of the iceberg Does a good conversation lead to friendship? When I was 7, I went to Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsSeptember 24, 2020 ago
What kind of mother-in-law will I be? Hopefully, one who doesn't get punched in the face
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What kind of mother-in-law will I be? (9-minute read)

As the mother of a girl and a boy, I will get a son-in-law and a daughter-in-law. What kind of mother-in-law do I want to be? Hopefully, one that doesn’t deserve to be punched in the face. https://youtu.be/nOe9mK_orqQhttps://youtu.be/GK9N4KUhgHc I have a daughter and a son. They’re both under 5 but Read more…

By sumonsleeve, 5 yearsAugust 12, 2020 ago
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Katharine Chan has over a decade of experience working in healthcare. She’s worked in emergency health services, mental health, women’s health, facilitating, coaching, and promoting honest conversations among healthcare leaders to enable organizational change. She’s passionate about putting words to her feelings despite growing up in a culture that hides them. She empowers others by teaching them how to love themselves, embracing their culture and improving relationships.

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