It’s my time to reflect on those sometimes annoying, mandatory Chinese family dinners growing up and how they’ve changed as I got older. **Click Below To Listen** So I’ve known how to make food for myself since I was very little, like elementary school times. I remember when I was 8, Read more…
After she was born, I started hating my husband like he was this evil asshole who only cared about himself and his needs. **Click Below To Listen** Our bundle of joy was more like a bundle of tangled Christmas lights. I was trying to figure out which end was which Read more…
Here are 13 Reasons Why I watched 13 Reasons Why **Click Below To Listen Now** This blog is dedicated to my high school self. You were a really important part of my life. I’m so glad you saw the light at the end of the tunnel before your self-harming ways got Read more…
I’m going to preface this by saying this list is based on the assumptions that my daughter decides to have a kid and that I will be alive when this happens. **Click Below To Listen Now** I know this may not happen but I like to put these thoughts into Read more…
Breastfeeding stressed me out. It was tiring and lonely. It was a mental game that I played with myself every day. **Click Below To Listen** So I exclusively breastfed my daughter 2 weeks shy of 6 months. I completely weaned her on my birthday as a gift to myself. It was Read more…
I don’t touch other people’s kids without asking their parents or the kid themselves first. **Click Below To Listen** First of all, kids are gross. I know kids touch everything and anything. Aside from being a mom, I’ve been a babysitter, a camp counsellor, a tutor, a piano teacher and Read more…
The men in our lives, our boyfriends, friends, husbands, brothers, fathers will never understand what getting a period feels like. I hate being a woman sometimes because I get periods. I menstruate; I bleed every month for several days on end. **Click Below To Listen** I’ve been doing this for Read more…
In my life, I’ve been called many things. **Click Below To Listen** Growing up in the 90s in a predominantly Caucasian community, I got the usual questions and comments. Here’s a sample with answers I should have given back instead of silently seething. “What are you?” A Human Being “No…like Read more…
Hi There! “WTF is Sum on Sleeve?” Like does that mean you have something on your sleeve? Why is Sum spelled that way? Why am I here? Where am I? Who am I? Maybe not that question unless you’re having an existential crisis…but perhaps reading my blog will help If Read more…