After she was born, I started hating my husband like he was this evil asshole who only cared about himself and his needs. **Click Below To Listen** Our bundle of joy was more like a bundle of tangled Christmas lights. I was trying to figure out which end was which Read more…
This is the second part of my recovering perfectionism journey. Please check out my first part to get a better sense of my story Hitting my first rock bottom at the age of 16 made me grow up pretty quickly. How does a self-destructive teenager with a distorted view of Read more…
Ladies, have you ever been in a public location (like waiting for the bus, buying groceries or getting your fix at Starbucks) and a man comes up to you and tells you to smile? **Click Below To Listen Now** Like he says, “Turn that frown upside down!” “You’d be prettier Read more…
Here are 13 Reasons Why I watched 13 Reasons Why **Click Below To Listen Now** This blog is dedicated to my high school self. You were a really important part of my life. I’m so glad you saw the light at the end of the tunnel before your self-harming ways got Read more…
I’m not super fluent in Chinese but I want to preserve the language for my daughter. Here are my top 4 tips for doing this I’m a Chinese-Canadian mom (you can read more about my journey of accepting my culture here). As much as I’ve been open to learning and Read more…
I’m going to preface this by saying this list is based on the assumptions that my daughter decides to have a kid and that I will be alive when this happens. **Click Below To Listen Now** I know this may not happen but I like to put these thoughts into Read more…
Breastfeeding stressed me out. It was tiring and lonely. It was a mental game that I played with myself every day. **Click Below To Listen** So I exclusively breastfed my daughter 2 weeks shy of 6 months. I completely weaned her on my birthday as a gift to myself. It was Read more…
I don’t touch other people’s kids without asking their parents or the kid themselves first. **Click Below To Listen** First of all, kids are gross. I know kids touch everything and anything. Aside from being a mom, I’ve been a babysitter, a camp counsellor, a tutor, a piano teacher and Read more…
The men in our lives, our boyfriends, friends, husbands, brothers, fathers will never understand what getting a period feels like. I hate being a woman sometimes because I get periods. I menstruate; I bleed every month for several days on end. **Click Below To Listen** I’ve been doing this for Read more…
I knew my maternity leave was going to end. I just didn’t know how I would feel in that moment I had to go back to work. **Click Below To Listen** All throughout my 11 months of maternity leave, I only counted forward; I didn’t count down the days I Read more…